This is something I have been meaning to write for the longest time. Happiness. Can anyone define happiness? Our answers would definitely vary. Some would say ‘family’. Some would say ‘friends’. Some would even say ‘staying alone in my room watching my favourite drama’.
During our lifetime, we try our best to find reasons to be happy. Also, doing whatever it takes to make others happy sometimes forgetting about our own happiness.
I’ve come to the conclusion that no one in this world is 100% happy. You see people smiling or having the best time of their lives then thinking “Wow, I wish I was as happy as they are” when you don’t even know half the story. Everyone is fighting a battle. No matter how big or small it is, it’s such a heavy battle.
For me, happiness was linked to a person. Not a certain person. Just people. I was always understanding and quiet about my problems. I didn’t like burdening others because I already know that anyone has had enough with problems. They told me that in the long run, I will have psychological/mental issues because I bottle all my feeling inside of me but for some reason, I believed I was different. Not talking about my problems helped me let them go but it took some time. I would feel a lot better when I’ve solved someone’s problem or helped them smile during a bad day.
Honestly, it’s not about how big the problem is, talking about it or not. It’s about picking the right person to help you. Someone you trust and you believe will make you feel better.
I have been inspired a lot by someone and I will never forget how much he has (and still) influenced me.
“If Something Happens That Makes You Upset, Don’t Hold It In. So That You Don’t Have Any Wounds Left Given From Anyone In The Future”.
For the strangest reasons, this is exactly what I wanted to hear from him at that time.
So please, don’t feel sad for whatever reason there is. Do something you love. Think a happy thought. Don’t let your dreams crash to the ground.
Talk to someone. People care, I swear. Would it hurt to start a conversation with someone even if you want help? You’d be surprised. You might find someone that has a lot in common with you and you’d eventually find someone who understands you.
Yes, not everyone will understand 100% because only you can feel what you feel but trying is for free, you know :’)
Keep anything negative and anyone pessimistic away. Go out, experience life and do what you love. I know some of you are trapped inside your homes not able to do anything. But like the dearest person in my life has said “whenever you’re feeling down, you don’t go and watch a sad tragic movie. You don’t think of everything that made you upset 9 years ago. You watch a happy movie. Something that would make you laugh. Do something you love and don’t surrender to your sickness or sadness”.
Whatever’s Good For Your Soul, Do That :’)
Try to find even the most little things that can make you smile 🙂 I promise you that feeling happy is your own decision. You don’t even have to be sad because everyone is. Be their and your own happy virus.
I pray everyone is happy or at least, they’ve found something to be happy about. It’s those little gestures in life that can change your entire mood.
Trust me! Someone in this world looks at you and gets happy thoughts every time they see you. Know that a smile can change so much.
Have a blessing Friday, Everyone! ^^